Yes, now we're getting to the big, the bad, and the ugly. Of course, whether or not this topic is any of those things depends on how you look at it and deciding how to look at it is absolutely essential. In the world of writing, or any other world really, there is no escape!
Today's Topic:
How do you take to being criticized? What comments do you take to heart and what comments do you ignore?
My Answer: Criticism, though sometimes painful, is a very important tool for a writer. When writing one tends to see their work through tunnel vision. The eyes of the creator and the eyes of the reader are two, completely different visions and criticism can help you notice things that you've missed. However, in order to be useful, the criticism must be constructive. Yet, there is no way you can control what other people say so it's better to control how you receive it. When first starting to show a project around for feedback, I keep a few rules for myself in mind.
1. Never take any one person's remark too seriously. One remark is simply not enough to fully gage a majority opinion. No matter who it is, that one remark could be simply that one person's preference. I usually try to go for about five opinions on a part I wrote and if they all say the same thing I'd consider adjustments.
2. Don't over react. This rule can be hard to follow. When you pour your heart and soul into a work it is very dear to you and, naturally, you feel the need to defend yourself. Especially when a criticism is unreasonable. But losing your temper is not a good reaction. Whenever I get criticized, whether I like the remark or not, I always try to say pleasantly, "Your opinion is noted." Then I mentally accept or reject the said opinion accordingly.
3. Go to people you trust. Another rule I try to remember is to go to people who's opinions I trust. I try not to over complicate it. I keep in mind a few people I know who are honest, kind spirited, and knowledgeable so that I can get some good, solid feedback.
That was my answer, now let's hear from you. Comment away, either here or on any of the other topics that strike your fancy.
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